tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20195120031654412802024-03-18T20:09:48.820-07:00Kosher Bride of the Upper East SideThe Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-81022033269652015262009-12-08T04:40:00.000-08:002009-12-08T04:47:14.308-08:00Center for Kosher Culinary Arts ContestHello all!<div><br /><div>I've taken a small hiatus to focus on some work related matters. However you'll be glad to know the Kosher Bride is back. </div><div><br /></div><div>So what have I been doing all this time? Well, I've been toying with idea of writing a cookbook. This is still in its infancy but I'll keep you updated as work progresses. If you've got a favorite recipe you'd like to share, drop me a comment. If you need and new and exciting recipes for salad, chicken etc. feel free to send in a request.</div><div><br /></div><div>I've also been thinking about taking a class at the Center for Kosher Culinary Arts. However, much to my dismay theses classes don't come cheap. However, there is a facebook and e-mail contest running right now that could help me win a scholarship. If you'd like to help me win e-mail kosherbride@gmail.com and I'll send you the info and my greatest thanks. Plus, if I win I'll chronicle the journey right here on blogger.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's good to be back!</div></div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-70374116485443282252009-09-13T16:24:00.000-07:002009-09-13T16:39:28.801-07:00The Problem With Group Shabbat MealsThe community here on the upper east side is pretty small. Yet there are about five or six different shuls and some young people may never meet the rest of the crowd because we are all spread so thin. Therefore, we are always trying to have the different graduate students, people from shul, friends who happen to be in the neighborhood etc. over for shabbat meals. It makes everyone feel like the community is getting stronger and friendlier. It helps bring in new people and lets the existing people know who is around.<div><br /></div><div>There's just one problem: they take FOREVER. I like socializing as much as the next person but most of us are hardworking people and we need our shabbat nap. We might all stay up late chatting but then we have to drag ourselves out of bed the next day to make it to shul on time.</div><div><br /></div><div>The real issue is the lack of a defined end point for the meal. No one wants to end it. The hosts don't want to feel like they are pushing their guests out so they hesitate on handing out the benchers, or serve dessert after benching. The guests don't want to 'eat and run' yet don't want to impose on their hosts either. Besides, maybe some of the single people are liking each other or maybe some of the married people are thinking of shidduchim for these single people. You don't want to ruin someone's shidduch because you need a nap. </div><div><br /></div><div>Why not just leave? Because once somebody makes a move everyone will follow. No one wants to be responsible for that.</div><div><br /></div><div>Of course it could be worse. I hear in Washington Heights they end up going straight from the meal back to shul. That's practically a six hour meal. Plus you'll never be dairy after shabbat.</div><div><br /></div><div>May I am just getting old. Perhaps four to five hour meals are normal. But I still think if you can't eat it in two hours, maybe that's too much for you to be eating anyway.</div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-38394544177843551782009-09-10T08:07:00.000-07:002009-09-10T08:54:21.232-07:00Getting the most out of your kitchen spaceAs many of my readers know, I live in a one bedroom NYC apartment. This means my kitchen space is severely limited. I also did not have the luxury of designing the space/picking the oven, sink and fridge, etc. However I have discovered that there are some definite ways to maximize on space in any kitchen you have.<div><br /></div><div>If it doesn't come with it, make it - I am a person who needs shelves. I tend to buy in bulk and need a place to put all this stuff. I am also very similar to most people in that I would like as much counter space as possible. Appliances like blenders, toasters and choppers are huge time savers but they take up a lot of counter space. My kitchen had two small counters. This was not going to cut it for me. So what did we do? Well, the apartment came with two four foot tall bookshelves. We had all ready decided to replace them with larger shelves so that we could fit all our books. We moved those shelves into the kitchen, covered the back with a decorative fabric (you might like to try cork-board for a functional bulletin board) and voila! I had an extra counter top AND extra shelves to keep things on. In my case it worked because the shelves were able to face in towards my small cooking area while the back faced out into the room. </div><div><br /></div><div>Get the most out of one appliance - When selecting items for my registry I kept space in mind. Items like the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001VDHO86?ie=UTF8&tag=andshebak-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B001VDHO86">Cuisinart Power Blend Duet </a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=andshebak-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B001VDHO86" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /> or the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0006G3JRO?ie=UTF8&tag=andshebak-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B0006G3JRO">Cuisinart Smart Stick </a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=andshebak-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B0006G3JRO" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /> are great because you get two appliances for the space of one. I leave the most frequently used attachment on the counter and the other ones are within easy reach on my shelves.</div><div><br /></div><div>Use every inch - A <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001G0RXYY?ie=UTF8&tag=andshebak-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B001G0RXYY">Corner Shelf</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=andshebak-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B001G0RXYY" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /> is a great way to get the most use out of this neglected spot. I installed several and use them to hold my spices.</div><div><br /></div><div>Be Decorative - If there is a gap between your cabinets and the ceiling consider lacing some nice pots with foliage or other pretty item up there. Jut remember: in moderation it can really brighten the room. In excess it makes one feel cluttered and hectic.</div><div><br /></div><div>You don't have to be a carpenter to build a pantry - If you've got a spare coat closet near the kitchen that isn't being used you might consider converting it into a pantry. There are many great shevling untis easily found at home depot that are a cynch to install. If you hesitant to do anything involving tools, or your building forbids you to put nails in the walls you can still use snap together shelf cubes.</div><div><br /></div><div>Is it frustrating when your kitchen does not match your cooking ambition? Absolutely. But these tips can help. Remember, there's always a way to make it work.<br /><br /></div> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/s/link-enhancer?tag=andshebak-20&o=1"><br /></script><br /><noscript><br /> <img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/s/noscript?tag=andshebak-20" alt="" /><br /></noscript>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-57083957890559502932009-08-30T07:57:00.000-07:002009-08-30T08:17:47.372-07:00Chocolate Mice<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZS-HxxUJ_NJUPLtqvHoWgUeQCn8PleyPYTvPisIj0DHuqnNT5osbZpAzJavE7ErNnH2VqcOMN848sabli1pNhYaVm4jIkXZNWJTD-VWSRYBRh92zTFiwNftKWczv1mbVU2BDbv6Efag/s1600-h/IMG_0588.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZS-HxxUJ_NJUPLtqvHoWgUeQCn8PleyPYTvPisIj0DHuqnNT5osbZpAzJavE7ErNnH2VqcOMN848sabli1pNhYaVm4jIkXZNWJTD-VWSRYBRh92zTFiwNftKWczv1mbVU2BDbv6Efag/s200/IMG_0588.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5375773668598495810" /></a><br />I made these for my husbands birthday party and they were a big hit. They're so adorable but their a snap to make,<div><br /></div><div>1 cup of dark chocolate</div><div>20 cherries</div><div>20 oreo cookies</div><div>20 hershey kisses</div><div>40 almond flakes</div><div><br /></div><div>Cover a baking sheet with wax paper. Twist the oreos so that cream remains on one half. Place those halves cream side up on the baking sheet. Save the rest for another purpose. Melt the chocolate in a double boiler. Dip a cherry in the chocolate and remove when it is coated. Attach a hershey kiss to the cherry on the side opposite the stem. Lay the entire thing onto one of the oreos. Attach two almonds as ears. Let set for at least one our in the fridge.</div><div><br /></div><div>These last for up to three days in the fridge if the cherries you have used are fresh.</div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-37678962592790689542009-08-25T19:54:00.000-07:002009-08-26T06:32:41.654-07:00Puff Pastry Five Different WaysI love puff pastry. It is one of the most versatile ingredients out there. You can buy it in sheets to roll to your preferred thickness or in convenient precut squares. It can be used in appetizers, entrees, even desserts! Here are some of my favorite puff pastry recipes, but I'm sure there are many more out there.<div><br /></div><div>1) Deli roll - everyone loves this shabbat table staple. Roll out one package of puff pastry into a rectangle of medium thickness. Spread a thin layer of mustard on the dough and top with various cold cuts. Roll up the dough just as if you were making a deli roll. Bake at 425 until dough is nice and flaky brown (about 20-30 minutes). Slice and serve.</div><div><br /></div><div>2) Mushroom puffs - Sauté a chopped onion and 12 oz's. of sliced mushrooms in some olive oil. Add in about half a cup of marinara, a tsp of salt a tsp of garlic powder and if necessary a little cornstarch to thicken. Use to fill puff pastry squares. Line them up on a baking sheet and bake at 400 until dough is brown and flaky. Save the extra mushroom mixture, heat it up just before serving and pour over the tops of the turnovers.</div><div><br /></div><div>3) Palmiers - Roll one package of puff pastry to a rectangle of medium thickness. Spread a layers of ricotta cheese on top of the pastry. Sprinkle all over with parmesan. Then top with sun-dried tomatoes and a little more parmesan. Roll up lengthwise as if making a jelly roll and place in the freezer for half an hour. Remove from freezer and cut into slices. Place slices on a baking sheet and bake at 325 until flaky and golden.</div><div><br /></div><div>4) Elephant Ears - Roll one package of puff pastry to a rectangle of medium thickness. Spread with melted chocolate or hazelnut spread. Top with a sprinkle of sugar and if desired, cinnamon. Roll up both sides lengthwise, meeting in the middle like you are folding a torah scroll and cut into slices (If dough is sticky, pop it into the freezer first). Place onto a baking sheet and bake at 425 for 15 minutes or until golden brown.</div><div><br /></div><div>5) Strawberry Swirls - Roll one package of puff pastry to a rectangle of medium thickness. Spread with strawberry jam (or any other flavor you like). Roll up lengthwise and cut into slices. Place on baking sheet and bake at 425 for 10-15 minutes. </div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-19248974290505292102009-08-19T08:47:00.000-07:002009-08-19T08:48:17.248-07:00Guys at Bridal ShowersIs anybody else disturbed by this growing trend? Lately I've been to more and more bridal showers at which the groom was present. He's always the only guy in the room and trying not to look tortured. The girls are all milling about with their plates of baked zitti and mini pizzas oohing and aahing as the bride opens such wonders as an immersion blender and a whisk with an egg shaped handle. The poor groom is wondering what the heck any of those items are. Conversation sort of stutters and fumbles as he gets near and people try to come up with something non kitchen item, wedding planning related. He is struggling for something to say as well, trying to impress his wifes friends. Everyone is sort of wondering what he is doing there.<br /><br />Most of the grooms I have actually asked have said their wife thought it would be sweet to have him there. Now sharing your wedding milestones together is nice, but if you're going to force him to come you should really have someone there for him to talk to. I applaud the thought behind wanting him to make friends with your friends but is throwing him solo in the middle of ALL you girlfriends during which time they are talking about kitchen appliances and changing diapers the best way to go about that? I vote no. If you're set on having there have some sort of joint party where his friends attend as well (yes, sacrilege in many circles since your girls and guy friends will mix. But if you think that' bad, then having your husband at the regular girls only shower is pretty bad too. After all your sexy friends are roaming around tempting him.). Your friends will meet his friends, there will be less pressure and who knows you might even make a shidduch. However, it will change the tone of your party. So if you want the traditional toaster-fest You shouldn't force your fiancee to suffer through it. You should also consider your friends feelings. If they are scared whit-less by large gatherings of guys you shouldn't torture them with your husbands friends, or even your husband, intruding on their girls only gathering. Just because your the brde doesn't give you the right to make anyone miserable. Including your friends and your husband.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-24154555765727970882009-08-09T05:15:00.000-07:002009-08-09T08:21:34.942-07:00What To Order on a First Date?My seminary took the topic of dating very seriously. We had an entire class full of marriage tips and ways to prepare yourself for dating and marriage. This mostly included such pearls of wisdom as 'have the kids tucked in and ready to be kissed goodnight when your husband comes home' (god forbid he should see them awake every now and then), "constantly strive to grow and take your husband with you on that journey" which conflicted with the ever important "don't push him too hard, he needs to believe everything is his decision". We even had a field trip to the Brooklyn botanical gardens since it is a 'popular date spot' and we should know where the restrooms are as well as the different humidity conditions in the glasshouses so we could protect our perfectly ironed hair.<br /><br />We even had guest speakers on the topic. One ancient looking women gave us an entire speech on how to approach the dating process. She wanted us to make lists of what is important to us. She wanted us to make lists of what is essential in our shidduch. She wanted us to make sure our parents were ready for us to get married in six months. She even had all sorts of tips about what to ask about - his yira'as hashem, his feelings towards torah, his feelings on the ever popular topic of 'growing' spiritually together. When she wrapped up this crash course and informed us that we were now fully prepared to go on shidduch dates she asked us if we any questions. Most of us stared at her like she was crazy, a few girls stared at her like she was god and one girl nervously raised her hand.<br /><br />When the women noticed the hand she asked the young lady what was on her mind. The girl, clearly distraught, blurts out "What do you order on a first date? I have one tonight and I have no idea and no one else seems to have any idea. I don't even know which restaurant we're going to". Finally! Someone was being honest and practical during this class. Well, the woman did not have much advice for her. In her ideal schedule a first date involved the two parties sitting across from each other in suits, at a hotel lounge, with a drink in betwen them that no one drinks but you have to order so as not to be defrauding the lounge. (Like one drink for two people sitting there for two hours is really a simulation of the typical hotel loung clientelle). By the time the two people see each other eat there is all ready a high level of commitment implied. This date was going off the grid in a big way.<br /><br />Many of us were wondering what the answer to the question would be and were disappointed about the lack of one given. After all, if everything was charted out this way and we were supposed to read into everything so much, shouldn't there be some 'normal' person thing to order? What if we ordered something that signalled we were crazy?<br /><br />When she arrived the next day we all crowded around to hear what she had chosen. She happily told us that she went with the grilled chicken and it went very well.<br /><br />Lesson learned? Sometimes you have to think for yourself. I've gone with the grilled chicken, sometimes I've gotten the salmon. I've even been bold enough to get a salad, with the crucnhy leaves and messy dressing (and the risk that the guy thinks your anorexic). The one thing I've never done is gotten the spaghetti. Even I'm not that adventurous.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-47925883356381137802009-08-08T17:31:00.000-07:002009-08-08T17:42:03.773-07:00Shabbat PicnicsOne of the best ways to beat the heat and break up these long summer shabbat days is to have lunch outside. How do I manage this when I live in an apartment building on the upper east side? Our building has a lovely terrace on the second with tables and chairs that is usually relatively empty on shabbat afternoons. Since it wasn't raining today (a rare occurrence this summer) My husband and I packed up our usual picnic supplies and headed down to th terrace for a nice lunch in the sun.<br /><br />Since we are regular outdoor eaters we have a pair of melamine plates and cups for eating outside. This is kind of dish that shopright or walgreens has in their big summer aisle for one or two dollars. It's my way of being earth friendly and not using paper. The plates and cups also have more weight than paper so they will not blos away as easily. While we carry down a few hot dishes the best summer outdoor foods are room temperature or cold. This corn salad is a great addition to any outdoor meal.<br /><br />Corn Salad:<br /><br />2 15 oz. cans of corn niblets<br />i small red onion, chopped<br />1 red pepper, chopped<br />3-4 cucumbers or pickles, chopped<br />1/3 cup vinegar<br />1/3 oil<br />1/2 cup sugar<br />dash pepper<br />1 Tbs. salt<br /><br />Place the vegetables in a dish. In a small bowl mix the dressing ingredients together. Pur over the vegetable/corn mixture and let marinate.<br /><br />The longer the salad marinates the better it gets, so there's no need to worry about what to do with leftovers.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-41395783192379699922009-08-05T16:09:00.000-07:002009-08-05T16:33:20.087-07:00Makeup: There is such a thing as too muchLately I can't help but notice all the women running around sweating in the heat of the summer with a full face of makeup on. Do they really think foundation running off their faces makes them look more attractive?<br /><br />I used to be into makeup. It was bred into me. Once you hit twelfth grade you could not enter a shul on shabbat without a full face of makeup on or your shidduch would be ruined. Once you graduated high school You could not leave the house for fear that someone would spot you and word would get out that you did not "take care of yourself". I wasn't really happy with foundation and layers of base, but I gave into my mothers exhortations and wore the eye shadow, blush and lipstick. After all, if I went to college without it, I was doomed to a life of singledom.<br /><br />That was until I started dating my husband. I admit that I had been falling off the makeup bandwagon at the time, but I was still applying the blush or the eyeshadow. One day I must have entirely forgotten and he commented that I looked nicer than usual. I wondered what was different until I realized I had forotten the excessive makeup. I took a little poll of guys I know and it turns out NONE OF THEM liked the googy globbed makeup popular with girls in hte shidduch scene. The "ruin your shidduch" myth is because the shadchan wants to see the makeup, she assumes the guy wants it.<br /><br />Think about it ladies, if someone approached you with enough maeup on to paint your house wouldn't you wonder what she was hiding under there? Sometimes a little subtelty goes a long way. A nice natural look lets them know you took some time to prepre for the date but are confident in your looks. It'd pleasanter, more apropriate for work, easier to maintain and will make you look wa more atractive.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-75178907489299938592009-08-04T05:32:00.000-07:002009-08-04T05:44:15.356-07:00What's for Lunch? Kibbeh neye<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzqwlmCzxKDAOS0T5ji17WtrqVQBjEhOIoKBUAc5RtFE8Qs-UJRT2AjM9IOjnBc_PaIe7B_4siJkK35gIOnrTmgJe1FloPoaRsmm4dy7AAXb6rJKBiOMQ8xXnMJUlqtr50vGw0OrJ0xA/s1600-h/IMG_0584.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzqwlmCzxKDAOS0T5ji17WtrqVQBjEhOIoKBUAc5RtFE8Qs-UJRT2AjM9IOjnBc_PaIe7B_4siJkK35gIOnrTmgJe1FloPoaRsmm4dy7AAXb6rJKBiOMQ8xXnMJUlqtr50vGw0OrJ0xA/s200/IMG_0584.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366088523257126706" border="0" /></a><br />Many people are familiar with kibbeh, the bulgar wheat shell filled with meat that is a traditional item at many sephardic homes. However not that many people are familiar with Kibbeh neye, it's vegetarian cousin. This meal is great for the summer since it requires no oven time and packs a light but delicous flavor. The original kibbeh neye involved use of raw choppen meat but today it is made in vegetarian fashion.<br /><br />Kibbeh Neye:<br />1 pepper (color of your choice)<br />1 tomato<br />half a bunch of parsley<br />1/2 cup red lentils<br />1 and 1/2 cups water<br />2 medium sized onions<br />2 Tbs. oil<br />1 and 1/4 cup fine bulgur<br />3 oz. tomato paste<br />1 Tbs. cumin<br />1 Tbs. coarse salt<br />pinch of red pepper<br /><br />Clean red lentils to remove any stones. Drain. Boil red lentils in 1 and 1/2 cups water and let simmer, covered, for 20 minutes. Chop onion and sautee it in the oil until the onions are clear and soft. Chop the tomato, pepper and parsley in your food processor. Wash bulgur in cold water and drain out any excess liquid. Add the vegetable mixture, onion and the hot lentils to the bulgur and mix well. Mix in the tomato paste and seasoning. Place mix in fridge for half an hour to firm up. Then shape into 2-inch long torpedo shapes.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-56380242561305383102009-08-02T06:53:00.000-07:002009-08-02T07:06:26.139-07:00Spruce up birthdays with cupcakes!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhagJuzGfX0PdQiPWryp0PRQhZj4sIbDBMaVRfD8YlVmPsiCSx2KASviwisS5qoHw8kkpVr3rGM6gJkshF1H1lXX_jwvwZiAVAu7dEzFl49_D5-4_BKKKWAhR8RAX8tlblIgWtQIySNHw/s1600-h/IMG_0502.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhagJuzGfX0PdQiPWryp0PRQhZj4sIbDBMaVRfD8YlVmPsiCSx2KASviwisS5qoHw8kkpVr3rGM6gJkshF1H1lXX_jwvwZiAVAu7dEzFl49_D5-4_BKKKWAhR8RAX8tlblIgWtQIySNHw/s200/IMG_0502.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365366945449504370" border="0" /></a><br />Tired of brithday cake? Want to take your birthdays to the next level? I for one wanted to try making something a little more special out of cake, but was not ready to decorate and sculpt a giant cake. I also did not have the proper (super expenssive) equipment. That's when I discovered <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GQ2QOU?ie=UTF8&tag=andshebak-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B001GQ2QOU">Hello, Cupcake!</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=andshebak-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B001GQ2QOU" alt="" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" border="0" height="1" width="1" /> by Karen Tack. It gave me simple instructions to make adorable cupcake creations with supplies I al ready had in the house. The book does call for some non kosher candies but you can easily replace those for a kosher variety. And with a little creativity you ca go beyond the bok and make cupcake designs of your own.<br /><br />These things are super impressive. If your having one of those wars with your sister in law over who can seem like the best happy home maker and impress your mother in law, this will guarantee you the win. (Although I do not have a sister-in-law I still enjoy the book. I like cake!) It's like becoming Martha Stewart, minus the insider trading and divorce. Here are the cupcakes I have made so far to the delight of my family. (Never tell them how easy it is).<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3EZI0Ib-Soss2lc0OPBRrUBskd8T6Gmn4GA6wumD-qW4vs-AfSdm0BSZSphx-eg_I5WErZMhKOuCjoNSVECAwTUYSRXXFQ9go6lJQkt_WGnZ27aAvmOi_e9JELGL4UubRnvGO2cfEQg/s1600-h/IMG_0516.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3EZI0Ib-Soss2lc0OPBRrUBskd8T6Gmn4GA6wumD-qW4vs-AfSdm0BSZSphx-eg_I5WErZMhKOuCjoNSVECAwTUYSRXXFQ9go6lJQkt_WGnZ27aAvmOi_e9JELGL4UubRnvGO2cfEQg/s200/IMG_0516.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365367381017637634" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh10dt1BOpVzwXJOMzJs1t85K9cZa3GLBo4rdhb0O1gnZTQREcZr3I6HcIum8ns7Qtywlmt2ILTe6YDhkmnMN2SHc7XxttrKbGRpQWAJQaAKFlRqjiqpwNay6237xVFrM3ZYUh1dJ2-6g/s1600-h/IMG_0521.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh10dt1BOpVzwXJOMzJs1t85K9cZa3GLBo4rdhb0O1gnZTQREcZr3I6HcIum8ns7Qtywlmt2ILTe6YDhkmnMN2SHc7XxttrKbGRpQWAJQaAKFlRqjiqpwNay6237xVFrM3ZYUh1dJ2-6g/s200/IMG_0521.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365367239548126850" border="0" /></a>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-6536740946012882322009-07-30T07:53:00.000-07:002009-07-30T09:34:46.646-07:00Thoughts for the Day: ahavas chinamToday, the ninth of Av is a day for reflection and self improvement as well as mourning. Our temple was destroyed because sinas chinam, hating ones fellow Jew for no apparent reason, was rampant. It is said that each generation in which the temple is not rebuilt is at least equally responsible and guilty of this sin. <div><br /></div><div>Here on the upper east side we have many different types of Jews, some more religous some less, some more traditionally clothed some less, some closer to judaism than others. While we are not as bad as many completely ultra orthodox communities in terms of welcoming those who do not look exactly like we do, we still have our prejudices. Who eyed the lady not wearing a hat or sleeves to shul? Who has judged the man who pronounces the bracha at his aliyah to the torah with a strange accent? These are our brothers and we must love and accept them no matter where they are from or what they choose to observe. In fact acceptance is actually the best way to affect a person and encourage them to become more religious. Furthermore, religion cannot be judged by the material of ones kippah or the country of ones ancestors. Somebody's different minhagim (especially in terms of livush) do not make them less religious than you. If your ancestors are from Spain there's no reason for them to parade around in a furry streimel and thick bekeshe. I'm pretty sure avrham aveinu did not wear a white shirt, black pants and black hat. In fact, if he were to walk into your shul today you'd probably screaming and tell him to go fine a mosque. </div><div><br /></div><div>Instead of judging people by what their outer appearances tell us, we should communicate with them directly. Speak to the person. Ask them how they are doing. Be a friendly, sociable person. Find out why they have wandered into your shul. Up here, people often are visiting sick relatives in the hospital. They neglected to pack their fancy shabbat suit. Does that mean they deserve a death glare? to be left with twenty feet of space around them at all times? Everyone (Jew or non Jew) deserves to be treated with respect.</div><div><br /></div><div>One of the most important things to do to tackle this problem is to properly educate our children. CHildren have a natural acceptance. A child of two does not blink twice at someone who looks different than people they are used to seeing. Yet by hte age of five or six children begin to shy away from people who look different. Unfortunately in many very religious neighborhoods children have been bred to take this to the extreme. They are so scornful of anyone that looks different. They label any stranger a "goy" (which to them is akin to a swear word) give the slightly different looking person a death glare when they walk into their neighborhoods and giggle behind strangers backs. Some even throw stones. Is this appropriate behaviour? Is this what will bring our temple back?</div><div><br /></div><div>And where did these children learn all this? Well, perhaps from their parents who will refuse to talk to a lost woman who needs directions because she is not wearing a sheitel. Or the storekeeper who sends the guy wearing to the head of the line so that he will get out quickly and stop tainting the place with his presence. You do not protect your children by teaching them this hate you deprive them of their temple. You also make their world seem strict and binding and some long to get out. Others are so afraid of being branded as "other" that they will take al sorts of abuse and remain quiet.</div><div><br /></div><div> A Jew who is friendly to another Jew creates a positive impression, altering some of that other Jews negative stereotypes bout religious people. You bring people closer together instead of tearing us apart.<br /></div><div><br /></div><div>May we all look a little less critically at our neighbors and a little more critically at ourselves.</div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-39606292355775218212009-07-29T08:15:00.000-07:002009-07-30T05:05:50.694-07:00ShidduchimIt seems that shidduchim is one topic that everybody has an opinion about. Even my non Jewish co-workers are into the shidduch scene. Yet matchmaking is not so simple as, "hey there's an orthodox Jew on the fifth floor and another one on 21, maybe they should date". Setting two people up, when done properly, takes a lot of thought, consideration and work. For the most part your perfect matches won't work out. In fact they will usually not even go on a second or third date. Yet it's still important to try. Now that I am the one doing the setting up rather than the dating I thought I should reflect upon things I learned during dating before I become an old married lady and forget them. Hopefully it will make me, and my readers, more considerable shadchanim.<div><br /></div><div>Things I remember from dating:</div><div>1) If someone is not ready to date or resistant to dating via shidduchim do not push them. There is nothing more frustrating to that person or to the poor individual they end up on a date with.</div><div><br /></div><div>2)What someone's parents want may not be what the single wants. Make sure to get the singles perspective as well.</div><div><br /></div><div>3)Ask about how outside the box the person is willing to go in terms of age, background etc. Sometimes the answer will surprise you. </div><div><br /></div><div>4)Follow up! No one wants to have to call you about the shidduch you mentioned but never pursued. It makes them feel desperate, no matter how nice and scatter brained you are. Even if it is a no, let the other party know so they are not wondering.</div><div><br /></div><div>5)Make sure there is communication after the first and second date. If the couple has taken things into their own hands, fine. But if no one has addressed the issue of a second date then you should. Even if it is just to clarify that there will not be one. Try to stay involved until at least the third date. Everyone will have more peace of mind.</div><div><br /></div><div>6)Sometimes the best thing a shadchan can do is help sheperd the parents through the process. The couple may know it's a yes but the parents start freaking out the minute they meet the in-laws, plan the vort, realize they are loosing their baby etc. </div><div><br /></div><div>7)It is best when you have had some sort of contact with the people you are setting up. Otherwise how can you really know them and their compatibility? Yet be mindful of the singles time. Getting dressed up for a five minute chat with some shadchan was every girls worst nightmare. (And I have never heard of a shadchan making a boy do this). Do not make them schlep in every two weeks to update you on their life.</div><div><br /></div><div>8)If you are a professional shadchan working with someone and you have not had any prospects for them in a while, call them. Let them know you have not forgotten them.</div><div><br /></div><div>9)Be discreet. Do not go blabbing about the couple you set up to everyone and their cousin, on the subway at the top of your lungs. These are peoples lives you are dealing with here.</div><div><br /></div><div>10)Ask why a couple broke it off. Even if it is after one date. This helps you find someone more appropriate for them the next time. If they have no answer you may need to push a little. This is important as sometimes people feel it is lashon hora to tell the shadchan about a dates bad behaviour. But if someone is acting inapropriately you need to know! You don't want to be setting up numerous singles with the inappropriate person. Also, one person's inappropriate is another person's normal. So try and get some sort of idea what the problem is. If "inapropriate" was taking you to a bar on the first date there are many daters that are fine with that and you can adjust set-ups accordingly. If "inapropriate" was groping the other person you want to cease setting that person up. Assure the single that whatever is said remains between you two and keep that promise.</div><div><br /></div><div>Some words for the daters:</div><div>1)I know that when your friends get engaged you hope they will set you up with some of their husbands friends. However, do not pester them during their engagement period. This is a very stressful time and it is not fair to ask them to jeopardize their relationship to try and get you a date. Many boys are not willing to set up their friends right away. Give it some time and wait until after the wedding.</div><div><br /></div><div>2)Although good shadchanim try very hard to always follow up we sometimes forget I apologize for it but please call us. I know this makes you feel desperate and horrible but we really did just forget and are glad of a reminder.</div><div><br /></div><div>3)Get out there and meet us! We can't set you up if we never met you. Tactfully let people know you are open to being set up. I myself never try and set people up unless they are open to it. Often, we will ask you when we meet you. However, if you know someone is a matchmaker there is nothing wrong with slipping into the conversation that you are available and that you appreciate any suggestions they may have for you. Just do it tactfully, not in the middle of a room full of people who are listening to you.</div><div><br /></div><div>4)Be honest with us about what you want. Otherwise we are not going to get anywhere.</div><div><br /></div><div>Good Luck to all the daters! May you all find your match soon.<br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-88329839592806900342009-07-26T11:07:00.000-07:002009-07-26T11:31:18.900-07:00What's for Lunch? Spaghetti with Swiss Chard and garlic chipsThe recipe below was found in my CSA newsletter. It's a nice change from tomato based sauces, and I love the garlic chips, but I can't help missing my mozarella cheese!<br /><br />1/3 cup Extra virgin olive oil<br />1 head of garlic, peeled and thinly sliced<br />1 medium onion, finely chopped<br />2 pounds swiss chard (separate the stems from the leaves and then chop both)<br />1/2 cup water<br />1 lb spaghetti<br />1/2 cup kalmata olives cut into slivers<br />6 ounces feta cheese, crumbled<br /><br />Heat oil in a skillet over medium flame. Add garlic and cook until golden, about 3 minutes. Transfer to paper towels to drain and set aside.<br /><br />Cook onion in remaining oil until soft and clear about 5 minutes. Stir in chard stems with water and 3/4 tsp salt and pepper. Cover and cook until almost tender, 3-5 minutes. Stir in leaves, cover and cook an additional five minutes.<br /><br />Meanwhile cook spaghetti in a pot of boiling, salted water. Reserve 1 cup of the cooking water and drain the pasta.<br /><br />Toss spaghetti with chard mixture, olives and the cooking water. Serve sprinkled with the garlic chips and feta.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_b7w3KH5hyphenhyphen35NQibIGaMv3a4EXD1YHAB3SZyt53OhJJkGNqGXF_olv8fZ5v9av1LkQxNxG6_ynfGntRzqrrmzw3ih27di5CZ-8z8pp2UsGWbeVgXMV3bfdRqlIT0XvCu320wNrOMGQ/s1600-h/IMG_0582.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEic_b7w3KH5hyphenhyphen35NQibIGaMv3a4EXD1YHAB3SZyt53OhJJkGNqGXF_olv8fZ5v9av1LkQxNxG6_ynfGntRzqrrmzw3ih27di5CZ-8z8pp2UsGWbeVgXMV3bfdRqlIT0XvCu320wNrOMGQ/s200/IMG_0582.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5362837997128935506" border="0" /></a>The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-42618576250251327232009-07-26T08:45:00.000-07:002009-07-26T11:07:34.991-07:00Herb Garden: Survival of the fittest<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilVaFXjIy7nl1mPeJ29r5koSMoBToZix6Addns1AzQeHVJez0_4dmkwNmnxa9NAIRjYTpNkRSZU2F_jPmt-uzVF8uyv0Az4f9CDP7KEBHa19-S_bBnWFYqfqmw3R7N8Sv1LTuHIIRyUQ/s1600-h/IMG_0579.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilVaFXjIy7nl1mPeJ29r5koSMoBToZix6Addns1AzQeHVJez0_4dmkwNmnxa9NAIRjYTpNkRSZU2F_jPmt-uzVF8uyv0Az4f9CDP7KEBHa19-S_bBnWFYqfqmw3R7N8Sv1LTuHIIRyUQ/s200/IMG_0579.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5362831893294535666" border="0" /></a><br />This week has shown some significant changes in my herb garden. All the plants are seriously heliotropic, bending and growing towards the sun. The basil and parsley are shooting up and putting out leaves that actual resemble a mini version of the full blown plant. However the parsley and dill pots seem to have erupted in chaos. Some plants are climbing atop others. The climbers are thriving but the others seem to be dying off. I am hoping this is a small version of natural selection and the best plant will survive.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-27552229889136987952009-07-24T04:42:00.000-07:002009-07-24T04:44:16.795-07:00Great Salad ArticleThe dining section of the NY Times featured a great article this week call <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/22/dining/22mlist.html?_r=1&ref=dining">101 simple salads</a>. Enjoy!The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-78189043174495309802009-07-23T09:17:00.000-07:002009-07-23T09:33:50.136-07:00Whats For Lunch: Quick and Tasty IdeasWhat do you do when you have no time to pack lunches in the morning? I suppose in some areas you can go and purchase something nice, but in this neighborhood purchasing options are both limited and expensive. Plus you can't always count on being to use the microwave where you work. I've got a stock of go-to lunches for those busy mornings.<br /><br />1) Quesidillas: They look impressive but their, really quick. Just grab a trotilla (I use the Mission brand) and throw some grated cheese on it. Then slap another tortilla on top and shove it in the oven at 400 for about ten minutes. The longer the oven time the crispier/crublier it gets. Slice with a pizza cutter and pack it up with a little tupperware of marinara sauce or sour cream for dipping.<br /><br />2) Heart of Palm Salad: Toss some lettuce with whatever veggies you have around and then to make it special throw in some hearts of palm. Note: I find the jarred hearts of palm are much softer and tastier than the canned ones. For some reason the cans just do not incude enough juices for marinating. I like a french or thousand island dressin but anything can work.<br /><br />3) Grilled cheese sandwiches: My sister gave me a sandwich maker. Best gift ever. Just put the bread, the chesse and whatever else you want it the machine and pull it our before you go. Great and low maintenance.<br /><br />4) Leftovers from hte night before: Self explanatory and it helps you get rid of those pesky leftovers from the night before.<br /><br />5) Corn on the cob: Rub a little butter over the husked corn. Put the corn in a ziplock with a tablespoon or two of water. Clse the ziplock. Microwave on high for two minutes per corn. Tastes better than boiling by hte way. This is how I prefer corn tat hasn't been grilled.<br /><br />I am als a big fan of making giant batches of things and freezing them for quick lunch defrosting. I'll post those freezer friendly recipes another time.<br /><br />Share your quick lunch tips!The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-85880406399283672452009-07-22T17:13:00.000-07:002009-07-22T17:23:51.699-07:00Cookbooks as gifts: nice gesture or insult?It's no secret that I love cookbooks, but I am hesitant to give them to people as gifts. Will they think I hate their cooking? Will the gift be perceived as a hint that they need some help in the kitchen? In the end this a very situation dependent question. I have given two cookbooks as gifts in my life. One was for my sister-in-law who had been ogling my Kosher By Design. So I surprised her with one of their own. The other was a kosher cookbook for a friend who was just starting to keep kosher and was a little confused about what she could and could not cook.<br /><br />Men, this is an even tougher situation for you. Can you give your wife a cookbook? The short answer is yes and no. If she's been eyeing a book, dropping hints about it etc. then sure go for it. My husband got me a great set of books about cake decorating for my brithday. However a cookbook out of the blue, especially beginner type cookbooks make many women feel a little insulted. I'll never forget the lady who came to shul and complained that her son had given her a cookbook. I thought "wow, what a nice kid. Randomly bringing mom gifts". She interpreted this as his complaint that she needs more variety with her kitchen and moaned "I'm 62. I can't keep up with these lakewood wives".<br /><br />An alternative is to get a nice kitchen gadget that will cut down on time in the ktchen or has a cute function. You please the cook/baker and are actually saying you want them to cook more.<br /><br />On the other hand, if the cooking really is sub-par then maybe this is the gentlest way to suggest some improvement is needed.<br /><br />Al gift giving is really about knowing the recipient. If you don't, then you're going to fail at whatever gift you select.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-19573271689050368212009-07-22T10:35:00.000-07:002009-07-22T10:52:16.315-07:00Brides: Changing Your NameEveryone always wants to know whether or not a new bride is planning on changing her name. In some circles it assumed that she will and if she does not she is some sort of crazy feminist. In other circles it is viewed as the brides choice. I chose to change mine for the practical purpose that my husband's last name was more pronounceable than mine. This may not matter to you if you do not interact with a large number of non-Jewish people in your profession, however in medical school it is always easier when your patients feel like they know what to call you.<br /><br />One argument against changing your name is that if you have published articles or built a reputation in a certain field under your maiden name it may not be worth starting over with the new name. I know some people who use the married name in real life and the maiden name for work. Is this legal? Well actually, yes. While you should always check things over your lawyer and accountant there is an old legal tradition that whatever you are called is in fact your name.<br /><br />For those interested in having documentary proof of their name change here are some of the steps you need to take:<br /><br />By far the easiest route to change your name is by doing so on your marriage certificate. (Men you can also change your name on your marriage certificate if you are so inclined). You will get the certificate back in a month or so at which point you should make many copies. You then use the copy as proof of your name change. It is that easy. You are going to get the license anyway. Might as well kill two birds with one stone. If you have neglected to take care of this on the marraige certificate then things get dicey. You need to fill out a form and appear before a judge to explain the name change. Note that you can do this for any name change. If you want to be called 'little bird' you can appear before a judge, forms in hand of course, married or not and have your name changed. Of course the judge can always turn you down, so don't go trying to become "Osamma Rules" or something like that. That could appear suspicious. This may differ from state to state but the basic idea is the same almost anywhere.<br /><br />Once you've got the marriage license head down to the DMV and change your license. While you will have to wait on a long line there is good news: you get to take a new photo! Also, print and fill out the apropriate form from the DMV website in advance to save time.<br /><br />To change your passport you must do so by mail. (Unless you do not all ready have a passport or your passport is all ready expired. Then you must go in person to a post office). Print the appropriate forms from the passport office and mail in your old passport, the forms, a copy of the marraige license and new passport photos. The new passport will arrive in the mail in about one to two months. If you are planning on taking a honey moon soon after the wedding you may want to book flights with your old name and delay sending away for a new passport until you get back. This way you will not have to worry about the passports arival.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-56654695153037821692009-07-21T06:21:00.000-07:002009-07-21T14:36:30.588-07:00Driving in the CityBelieve it or not I still do not have my drivers license. However, I am determined not to turn 25 without it. This gives me roughly a half a year give or take a few months to pass a road test. All my 17 year old cousins are giving me their tips.<br /><br />Tip 1: Take the road test in staten island.<br />Tip2: Do not take the road test at Sheaps Head Bay. Apparently there is a woman named "the terminator" there who fails you the minute she gets in the car. Some people have not even managed to pull away from the curb before she declares the test over.<br />Tip 3: Don't forget to put on your seat belt (apparently a large cause of road test failure in the 17 year old crowd).<br />Tip 4: Don't drive as fast as you want to. (I don't think there's much of a problem with this. If anything I will likely get points deducted for driving two slowly and impeding traffic. I can barely bring myself to get the car up to 20 mph when I have a large open road in front of me. This could be an issue as apparently they do give 'speeding' tickets to people who drive too slowly. Just ask my father-in-law.)<br /><br />The first step to obtaining a license is obtaining a learners permit. I accomplished this when I was in high school. I needed it as ID to take the SAT. But I was perhaps the worlds first teenager who did not want to drive. I am actually on my THIRD learners permit at this point. My first one expired on me when I turned 18. I had to take the written and vision tests again. If you think you've seen it all, just wait until you visit a DMV. There was a woman cheating on the vision test! Not only that but she did so by blatantly reading off her palm. The best part of the story is that the DMV employee did not look up from her computer screen the entire time and thus did not notice the cheating woman. She's probably on the road by now.<br /><br />My third learners permit came when I got married and changed my name. This was a relief since they let you take a new picture when you chage your name. My old drug addict poto was replaced by something that actually looks a little like me. Maybe that is because I took this photo at a manhattan DMV while the previous one was in Brooklyn. I have heard that at some DMV's upstate they are even nice enough to take three shots, show them to you and then let you pick your favorite. Whatever they put in the water coller up there, I think we need to get some of it.<br /><br />Then comes the ever popular 5 hour class. This mandatory class usually last about two and a half hours and the curriculum is entirely up to the instructor. Most involved a video. Mine was taught by some Russian mafia man who showed a video on how 'the 90's woman' is not afraid to change her own oil an tires. I was also the only white person in the room. Apparently all the white teenagers take drivers ed in school. Everyone else (and me) go to the russian mafia. After the video we were treated to a tale about how our instructor owns two guns and almost shot two diners in the restaurant he used to own because he was sure they would try to hold him up. The moral of the story was supposed to be how you never know what crazy people are out there wanting to shoot you and so you must share the road. Don't lose your certificate of completion for this class. You cannot take a road test without one. After all, you learn so many valuable things at this class.<br /><br />I am now on the lessons stage. Let me tell you, if you thought it was hard driving in NYC imagine what it would be like to learn how to drive in NYC. My instructor is actually pretty good and she takes me driving all over the place. Before I even know what is happening I changing lanes and honking pedestriands in Harlem. If you need an instructor I'd be happy to give her your number.<br /><br />The road test is August 14th. Wish me luck.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-85648951116426185912009-07-20T08:39:00.000-07:002009-07-20T09:39:21.504-07:00Black Currant Tea<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEXBSf32mfEPH1pX0XvY8st-ngDHTbzVQm06B_eExQXFrWs6KLQMOxbfLYcCTx54yFHqzz0E_CXfD_V3uGt5TT5g5CTqZykT4xzDszGNqTKe8KQqGwqy2bmB14-u5lNeuJKzJTgCCnUg/s1600-h/180px-Schwarze_Johannisbeeren_Makro.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 180px; height: 135px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEXBSf32mfEPH1pX0XvY8st-ngDHTbzVQm06B_eExQXFrWs6KLQMOxbfLYcCTx54yFHqzz0E_CXfD_V3uGt5TT5g5CTqZykT4xzDszGNqTKe8KQqGwqy2bmB14-u5lNeuJKzJTgCCnUg/s200/180px-Schwarze_Johannisbeeren_Makro.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360582789693014818" border="0" /></a><br />Many people have seen red or white currants before. They have a nice sweet taste and go well in fruit salads or just eaten by themselves. The black currant on the other hand is too sour to be eaten on its own. It must be boiled with sugar or honey to cut balance it's tart nature. Why bother with all the fuss? Well, the black currant is sometimes called a "super food" because it contains a ridiculously high amount of vitamin C as well as good levels of potassium, phosphorous, iron and B5. It also has many anti-oxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. My favorite way to get my dose of black currant is black currant tea. Boil the currants as described in the recipe below and add the resulting syrup to green tea as a sweetener instead of sugar or honey.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Black Currant Tea:</span><br />Place currants in a heavy sauce pan over medium heat. FOr 1/2 lb of currants add 1 Tbs. sugar and 1Tbs. honey. Heat, stirring occasionally to mash the berries. When the berries have thickened to become a sauce remove from heat and cool. If you like sweeter sauce just add more sugar or honey. I like to keep the berry parts in there but you can also strain.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-33550701121029455692009-07-20T08:09:00.000-07:002009-07-20T08:19:33.609-07:00A Typical Day in the Life of the Kosher Bride8:00 am wake up, get dressed, have breakfast<br />8:30 am pack lunches for work, check e-mails, pack bag for work<br />9:20 am leave for work<br />9:30 am Arrive at work (It's expensive to live up here but you can't beat the commute.)<br />9:35 am - 1:30 pm Various work activities interspersed with web surfing, plus maybe a blog post.<br />1:30-2:00 pm lunch, start planning dinner<br />2:00-5:00 pm More work activities and web surfing<br />5:00-6:00 pm Get antsy and start trying to rush things to get out of work<br />6:02-6:10 pm Walk home<br />6:10-6:30 pm relax with husband<br />6:30-7:30 pm dinner planning and cooking<br />7:30-8:00 pm dinner with husband<br />8:00-10 pm relaxing with husband, talking, planning next day, calling parents, planning weekend, make lunches for next day if necessary<br />10 - 11 pm reading<br />sometime between 11 and 12:30 pm go to bed<br /><br />Too much of this is work, but I'm still learning a lot in the lab and am not as time efficient as I should be.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-27184576338142843592009-07-19T10:37:00.000-07:002009-07-19T14:35:36.828-07:00The Weirdest Names I've Ever HeardIf you live in the suburbs you've come across your usual names: Chani, Moshe, Jim, Bob, Frank etc. You may have even come across some Shprintze, Penelope, Oswald type names. But nothing compares to the names you come across in the city. Some of them make you wonder why there aren't child cruelty rules preventing this from happening. Here are my favorites.<br /><br />Twins named King and Queen, I am actually willing to forgive this one. It's a terrible thing to do to kids but sometimes it's hard to resist the urge to be cute when naming kids.<br /><br />Twins named Lemonjello and Orangejello on the other hand makes it pretty tough not to laugh. You can tell what mom was craving when she was carrying these two. Official pronunciation is luh-man-juhlo and Oran-juhlo.<br /><br />Female pronounced fuh-may-luh. Did the parents forget to fill this line in on the birth certificate? Did they think the baby ID bracelet saying "female Smith" was the hospitals way of suggesting a name?<br /><br />ABCDE: pronounced Absida but to me seems more like the first five letters of the alphabet. I suppose they couldn't come up with anything more original.<br /><br />Chlamydia, pronounced Klem-eh-die-uh. Perhaps they wanted to ensure their little girl never gets a boyfriend. ever. <br /><br />And my personal favorite:<br />La-a Don't call her laah or leah. You'll get a sharp reproof: "It's pronounced luh - dash -uh. You pronounce the dash you idiot.". I'm wondering if maybe she had her named changed to this herself just so she could call people idiots and ensure that no one ever pronounces her name correctly.<br /><br />Have you encountered any great names?The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-68857662636623853162009-07-18T19:03:00.000-07:002009-07-18T19:15:59.504-07:00Thing I'm Grateful ForOn the weekends, I get to be a housewife. I can cook dinner, do laundry, make the beds and just get my house in order. Strangely, this gives me great pleasure. I am grateful for this time to play mother hen. Sometimes, I wish I stayed at home full time. Then I realize, the reason this time is so precious to me is because it comes so rarely. On the weekdays cooking dinner and doing the dishes is about all I have time for. Fancy dinner, baking, housework etc. are luxuries for me. And so I am grateful that I am in graduate school, that I go out to work/school every day and that this makes my home life seem so special to me.<br /><br />For all you stay at home wives and mothers out there, I don't know how you do it. May your homes give you as much joy as mine gives me! Shavua tov.The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2019512003165441280.post-64153086412945277362009-07-17T08:48:00.000-07:002009-07-17T12:31:27.104-07:00Kosher Grocery Shopping: how to savePeople who don't keep kosher cannot believe how much I spend on groceries or the lengths I am willing to go to find things I can cook with. For those of you living on the upper east side (or NY in general) here are some of my favorite places to shop while not spending a fortune. <br /><br />Brooklyn: There's nothing like going to Brooklyn and bringing back a freezer full of meat and cheese. I actually have a mini freezer for this purpose. Meats are found at great price's at Moishe's and Pic'N Pay. Heck even buying them at Glatt Mart or Pomegranate is cheaper than buying them in the city. Pic 'N Pay is the ultimate cheese store in terms of both selection and price. OF course this requires going to brooklyn and having a means of transporting your goods home.<br /><br />Pathmark: Get off th 6 train at the 125th street stop and Pathmark is right there. Despite the fact that the store is a very non Jewish neighborhood they have many kosher product becuase they are a national chain. Many of the breads and bakery items that are pre-packaged are kosher. You will also get a much better price on every day staples like flour, rice, bread, pasta etc. Extra savings can be had by singing up for a pathmark card and looking at the circular. I have found the fruit section lacking in quality.<br /><br />Walgreens: Yeah, I know what you're thinking. It's a drug store. But if you look at the weekly circular you will find great prices on cereal, ice cream aluminum foil and the like. Other drugstores also have sales but they typically have slimmer circulars.<br /><br />Kosher.com: This is a five towns based company that ships you almost all kosher products. You have to buy things on sale otherwise they are super expensive. The sale price is only slightly higher than brooklyn prices. This is a good option for those who do not have time to shop themselves. Often there are discount codes for 20% or codes to give 20% of your order to charity. You also get a reward for referring friends (If anyone would like me to refer them just let me know).<br /><br />Costco: This requires a car. It also requires a Costco card. If someone in your family has both card and car convince to take you shopping once every two months or so. You must careful: sometimes buying in bulk is not cheaper than buying on sale at a store like pathmark. Make sure to look at the price per item. Sometimes it is great sometimes it is not. They also have great individually packaged salmons from Kirkman that are certified kosher. Some Costco's, like the one in the five towns, have excellent bakery products that are kosher. The produce is as fresh as it comes and lsts a long time.<br /><br />The Fruit Cart: These fruit guys are cheaper than thte regular grocery stores and often their stuff is quite fresh. Get to know the vendors in your area to see which has better produce. Try to buy things as close to the day of use as possible.<br /><br />Always, always look at the circulars for the stores in your neighborhood and sign up for their discount club or card. It doesn't cost anything and often you save.<br /><br />Happy Shopping!The Kosher Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00764036467274079720noreply@blogger.com0